Separation

For the first time in 7 months

we have our 1st separation.

My husband is away.

He is in another part of France

 

Since we came to Paris

I confessed that I am a little pampered.

My husband gets to start work at 9 and reach home at 6

 

I have forgotten that he wears a uniform

I have forgotten those crazy working hours

I have forgotten that being away from home is a norm

and not getting to see him for weeks is usual

 

Such separations may be common

but I have never really gotten used to it

It is a tough position

and it doesn’t work going either way

if you know what I mean.

 

I remember waking up in the wee hours

just to hear him talk about his day

surprisingly,

I enjoy it

I truly do

 

For I love what I see in his eyes

something which doesn’t come natural to me

and took me a long while to find.

A passion for the work he does.

 

It is this passion

that thereon leads our lives

It is this passion

that makes some of our choices clear

 

It is this passion

that makes me sit here, ponder and write

and it is this passion

that makes the wait worthwhile.

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5 Responses to Separation

  1. separation makes the love that much stronger doesn’t it? ~ Oooops, this is only applicable to couples who can stand the test of time… *wink* and I STRONGLY believe you 2 are THOSE kind of couple! *smile*

  2. dont worry much, you can explore paris with malcolm when he’s away hehehe…
    enjoy paris while you’re there!

  3. Ann

    That is just awesome….he is one lucky man to have a wife that supports him like you do!

    And you are blessed to be able to feel and share in his passion as well.

    Great example to Malcolm.

  4. You are very lucky that your husband doesn’t travel that much. It can get quite boring for SAHMs like us, especially when we live in foreign countries. My husband travels every month, each time 2-3 weeks, and it can get quite boring, tiring and frustrating over time, having to take care of a 2 y.o. hyperactive toddler all on my own. By the way, thanks for visiting my website, and you are the first person to acknowledge my song playlist and the eye candies pictures!! Hehehehe!

  5. well at least this is a once in a while trip rite? as compared to b4.. u’re seeing him so much that you’re so used to him being around now. :)

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