On the Road

April 24, 2009

And we are still on the road after many days. This time countries hopping by train, and ONLY train. Having free internet connection is a bonus, a luxury.

We visited new and old places. Some for the very first time, some for the 2nd, some even for the 3rd.

Even if it was an old place, there are new things to see, new things we discovered.  There are really so much more to every places. Travelling with a different group of people creates a different experience by itself.

I don’t think I miss Paris yet.

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XCouture - Spring/Summer Collection

April 10, 2009

There is a part of me which believe in the greatness of retail therapy.
I LOVE SHOPPING. It makes me feel victorious when I lug home bags of loot from sales. It makes me feel pampered when I splurge insanely on a bag, even though my husband thinks that I am better off spending the same amount of money on 20 different bags.

This time round in Paris, I am constantly reminding myself my 20kg baggage limit when I board the plane. And with my boxes of loots from our last stay in the States, still sitting somewhere in the warehouse back home, I know my husband is right. I have to restrain.

Sometime I joked to my husband that I am becoming a saint. Putting away those temptations is TOUGH and I REALLY REALLY can’t wait to get home so that I can live my ’shopping’ life. The life that will sort of connect me with the ‘real’ world.

When I found out about XCouture, I have been lusting over some of their fun tops and oooo lala sexy dresses. They are casual and chic and I can imagine pulling over one these on a hot and sunny day.

Xcouture is a newly launched online store based in Singapore. They carry a wide range of daily basics and cocktail dresses and have released their spring/summer collection for this opening special. Hop on over and shop now to enjoy a 20% storewide discount.

note : promotion code is COUTURE20

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24 hours

April 9, 2009

I have less than 24 hours before the gang arrive.

My mum, my sis, my brother and my brother in law are visiting.

I need to ..
change the sheets
vacuum the floor
wash the bathroom
scrub the tub
mop the floor
stock up the fridge
and find space in my closet to fit 8 baggages !

I never knew there were so much junk lying around in the house !

It’s hell lot of work
but I am happy
and I am so so so excited

will see how we can fit the foursome into our little nest !

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Happiness

April 7, 2009

Happiness is kicking balls

running with arms open

wind in your face

 

Happiness is having a friend

holding hands

playing catch

 

Happiness is different types of chocolate

double scoops ice cream

tasting the rain

 

Happiness is 4 different types of flowers

catching a lady bug

setting him free

 

Happiness is showertime

soaping and scrubbing

bombing bottles

 

Happiness is being alone

playing LEGO

flying ace

in WWII

 

Happiness is waking up

snuggling up

playing you are my hotdog

I am your bun

 

Happiness is staying home

lunch with Mummy

and dinner with all

chatting yakking blabbering on

 

Happiness is morning and evening

Daytime and nighttime too

For happiness is anyone and anything at all

That let you be you

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Are We Guilty ?

April 5, 2009

I received this video in my email, another maid abuse child case in Singapore.

Like many net viewers, I was outraged by the video. What the maid did was extremely cruel and nothing can be said and argue to condone such act. Inflicting pain and causing harm to an innocent child who is powerless. Maybe this will prompt more working parents to set up spy cams, maybe the government will come out with more stringent laws to deter such act, yet, are these enough ? Are there more fundamental issues here ?

In the US and France, live in domestic workers are extremely rare and are only affordable by the uber rich.  In fact, we have never seen one despite having lived in both countries for a number of years.  I think the main reason is that in both France and the US, foreign labour enjoys the same labour rights as domestic workers.  That means, foreign workers enjoy the same pay, and are protected by the same labour laws.  An immigrant worker from Africa working in Paris therefore earns as much as a similar french worker.  An immigrant Mexican working in LA technically earns as much as an American working in a similar job.  Doubtlessly, human trafficking and exploitation of cheap labour still occur in both the US and Europe but it is at least illegal.  Due to these laws, labour cost is charged at market rates and it would be extremely costly to employ a full time live in domestic worker.  A friend with 4 kids in Paris paid more than 20,000 euros last year for a nanny who worked from 8 to 6 everyday except for weekends.

On the other hand, Singapore foreign domestic workers work abysmally long hours. They enjoy neither similar pay nor rights as Singapore workers.  It is not uncommon to find them working more than 12 hours a day.  For the first few months of their stay, they do not get any day off and most of their first year’s pay go to paying off their agencies.  They are often placed under strict curfews and social restrictions by their employers who fear that the former would get themselves pregnant or run into some sort of trouble that would implicate them.

In short, most foreign domestic workers in Singapore are overworked, poorly paid and deprived, often unwittingly by their employers and the government, of some of their basic human rights : the right to equal treatment without discrimination; the right to socialise.

Before going further, I want to highlight the European and American context that have disallowed discrimination of foreign labour.  In fact, the Europeans were one of the greatest perpertuators of cheap human labour: slavery.  This sparked a civil war in America, which was fortunately won by those who wanted the abolition of slavery.  Eventually, the rest of western civilization followed suit but the stigma remained.  Any official policy that seemed to discriminate against foreign labour was frowned upon.

In Singapore, we have embraced foreign labour.  Foreign live in domestic workers have allowed our people to work and enjoy luxuries at a price that most foreigners could not even dream of attaining in their countries today.  Their cost to a typical household is approximately S$1000 a month, or about S$12000 a year, a miniscule amount compared to my friend’s 20,000 euros (~S$40,000) for a daytime weekday only nanny.  No, we have not embraced foreign labour.  We have as a matter of fact, in my opinion, embraced slavery in its modern form, the exploitation of people in countries worse off than ours.

It is easy to rebuke the slavery claim by saying that we are paying them and they would otherwise be worse off economically without these jobs. Yet, at the end of their stay here, how much do these foreign domestic workers really make and how much do their employment agencies make?  And the main issue is not really about pay but about rights and freedom.

Do you know of anyone who overwork their maids?
Do you know of anyone who employ maids for work other than that authorized in their contracts?
Do you know of anyone who treat their maids as second class people?
Do you know of anyone who confine their maids indoor and control with whom they may socialize with?

And what about our children?
What are we teaching them when there is always Maria who will clean up after them?
What are we teaching them when Maria never join them at the dinner table but is only fed the leftover?
What are we teaching them when Maria has to work around the house from dawn till dusk while the rest laze in bed and curl on the couch?

Are we teaching them respect?
Are we teaching them responsibility?
Are we teaching them equality?
Are we teaching them independece?
Are we teaching them that one has less rights if one is poor?

I am obviously generalizing.  I am sure that there are many employers out there that treat their maids humanely and with great gratitude.  But my personal observations have shown me that many of them treat their maids less than what they are: an equal human being but who is forced by circumstances beyond their control to work in a country far away from their families.

Again, I do not condone crime and cruelty against children and it saddens me even more to see these videos.  However, are we guilty too?

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Inspiration from the Alps - Glory of the Morning Sun

April 3, 2009

And I love the morning sun

the morning scent that is uniquely hers

perhaps from the morning dew

or perhaps from the waking greens

bearing freshness after a long night rest

rejuvenating, refreshing

liberating, tranquilizing

spreading glory

high above ground

over a blanket of frosty white

 

 

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Drawing

April 1, 2009

Malcolm’s drawing doesn’t seem to go beyond planes and rockets
He doesn’t fancy colouring
but because drawing and colouring are daily activities in school
each day he would lug back some
usually another monotone plane
or another unfinished rocket

The teacher let him be
so do I
I think he get sick hearing me ask
‘Why didn’t you colour ?’

Then one day
He came back with battleships and submarines
thanks to World War II
It was something new
though he still couldn’t get pass machines
he did surprise me

A few weeks ago
he came back with this

I love the colours
cheery yellow and bright blue
It was a whale
he had sun and clouds too
but he had to have a yellow torpedo trailing behind

The other night
out of the blue
he asked
‘Can I draw you a bird’
and of course I said ‘SURE!’
‘but do you know how ?’ I asked
‘I’ll use my imagination’
was what he said

His words were music to my ears
for I have yet to convince myself
that he should be taught how to draw
why should a duck be this
and a chicken be that ?!

he came back with a flying bird
with jagged wings
and flatten beak
it was a decent looking one

I guess it surprised him
that he could actually draw a flying bird
from his imagination

that sort of set the momentum going
he added a bigger bird, he called swan
then another bigger one, he called ostrich

It was rare
to have him volunteer to draw
so to keep the momentum going
I helped out with the colouring
adding a ladybug
a dragonfly
then a bumble bee

Very soon he had
a sheep
lots of wild flowers
2 sea planes
an escargot which I mistook it for rose
and some fluffy clouds

I thought we ended up with a pretty cool drawing
which really remind me of Spring

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